I discovered a blog last night that could redefine the way I parent my children.
That sounds major, doesn't it?
Let me give you some back story...
I'm tidy.
I'm organized.
I'm a clutter-purger.
My kids are collectors of junk.
My kids hoard junk.
My kids have random bits of crap all over their rooms.
And I have never respected their crap. My son spent a month last summer collecting beer caps. I got sick of finding them everywhere so I took them and let my Girl Scout troop use them for a project.
My daughter had a box of dirty old driveway rocks under her bed for over a year. I needed the box they were in and so I threw them out. While she was at school.
My kids are onto me. I throw stuff out so often that when they ask me,
"Mom, have you seen my new McDonald's toy?"
and I tell them no...
they immediately say,
"Mom, did you throw it away?"
(to which I always play dumb.)
Their stuff is crap to me, but to them it's a treasure. Something to collect. And to them it's very important. I realized this after finding this blog (which is a 365 Project of hers).
I went to bed with a completely different view of the items my kids choose to collect and keep. This morning I vowed to both kids that I would no longer throw away their collections.
(You know there's a catch, don't you?)
So I'm going to help them display their important items. Organize them and keep them tidy. So that I can live in harmony with their crap.
This morning I started with Camden. We pulled some canning jars in from the garage and headed for his room. He had three collections that we found and bottled up.
Then we went downstairs to begin labelling his jars.
He has a collection of "armies" (aka army men), empty bullet shells, and handmade Boise State football tickets.
That is a MAN collection, no?
Now his important crap items are organized, labeled, and stored prominently in his room. Like they should be.
When Jaelyn gets home, we'll do the same.
...If you don't hear from me by tomorrow, it's because I got swallowed by the junk monster under her bed! In that case, send someone with the Jaws of Life.





13 comments:
Great idea! This is a win/win for all involved.
I really have to commend you for that. My daughter is a great collector of junk..anything from snail shells she's found in the yard to random stones...maybe the next time I want to throw it all away we can do the same. :)
I am a clutter-purger as well, but I'm also a collector, so I TRY (it is hard!) to respect my son's collections. I LOVE the idea of the jars, and look how proud and happy he is! You have to post Jaelyn's. I can't wait to see hers!
What a clever idea!
I'm with you. I get to a point where I can't handle anymore crap and I throw it away.
I feel much better after...until like you said the little innocent face asks where that something is.
Love the mason jars-it makes the junk look interesting, like it's a specimen on display! That would be cool to have in my classroom!
I love the jars because and you actually see what is inside :) Brilliant!
I throw away junk too, I love this idea, but I dont think I am as tidy so I better get on that. I love that you are so self aware and put what you learn into action. Im super curious about that blog now, Im going to have to check it out! thanks Feathery
you're blooming girl.
but, i haven't heard from you so.... should i be worried? hope J's bed didn't swallow you...
Very wonderful idea!
Oh I love the jar idea! ;) we de-clutter our lives every year ... and the kids have so many 'collections' it drives me insane! their rooms are so hard to keep tidy! and the rest of my house for that matter... with those two living here!! ha ha! I might try jars for those smaller collections!
great idea! i also can't stand junk and clutter and end up going through my kids' room and throwing stuff away regularly. i really like the idea of putting collections together to keep them in. i'm going to have to try it!
We did have the same thing going on our blogs at the same time didn't we? I like to purge and throw away too but as you know I'm a collector too so....I couldn't ever get rid of my son's many collections. Love the jar idea!
I am just beginning to see the early stages of this in Cora. I'm so glad your daughter is older and you can have all these brilliant ideas all tried out for me! I throw all of their "treasures" away. Cora is only now beginning to care. This might be our solution. Also I'm going to need to pick up a bunch of those canning jars anyway because I'm going to do some canning this year, Martha Frickin Stewart like.
I really love this idea. I am a major collector. Which is made worse by being a complete pack rat. I always used to be afraid of my Mom throwing my things away when I was little. She eventually stopped because I'd know exactly what was missing and be all upset!
This is such a win-win situation for you and your kids. And it's also quite cute :)
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